Same Sex Marriage!?


Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure, for God will judge the adulterer and sexually immoral.

                                  Hebrews 13:4

          Yesterday my sister asked me about same sex marriage since she is preparing for her speech regarding this. Upon hearing this words “same sex marriage” a negative view formed in my mind. And lot of questions. Why it turned that way? What is happening? The sad reality of human perspective.

            The same sex marriage is a headline issue to the world. It was introduce and made known by the LGBT as they call it. That is really an “in” thing to them, the best moment of their lives more than winning a beauty queen crown.

Nevertheless people have different opinions on this matter. People who have believe of gender equality and follow the ways of the world agrees without qualms and with joy. While there are people who are enlightened by the Word of God, stand by the truth and live with it. To them it is never right and indeed a disobedience. But the question is what is right for you?

            It is true that it is not right to judge and it is not our job to do that and folks we are not judging. We are standing in the light of truth and let it shine for them. Marriage is sacred and needs to be respected. We all know that marriage is not just on a paper it is more than that. It is meant for a man and a woman who love each other sincerely and more. The truth slaps they say and I agree but this truth will set you free and wakes you up from the lies of the enemy the devil who wants to distract and destruct you. Wake up! Accept the truth and time to go back to the arms of our loving God. Repent and forgiveness be given to you. Our God is faithful and He loves you.






I dreamed about fantasy

not thinking about reality

Am stucked with insincerity

and I hate this kind of dishonesty

I never thought friendship from afar will be possible in true sense

cuz I always end up hurting in finding the right one.

Then you came and change this view of mine. 

You making me realized lot of things 

Are you even aware of that?

Like a wind gently breeze in my cheeks

So gentle and true that it makes me feel at ease.

If ever your world turns upside down

I’ll be there 

If ever u push me away

I’ll stay

Cuz I’m holding in to this one special promise “Stay in touch”.

Encourage Me!

       Have you ever been tired of waiting? Have you ever feel like losing hope because you are thinking that God is not listening? That moment where in you totally lose hope and you feel the creepy frustration running in your veins but you still chose to believe. You chose faith over fear. We’ve been there. You are not alone. The good news is that God is up to something in your waiting. Remember everything has its time. God makes all things beautiful in His time.You may not understand it now but one day you will. Remember He is God. His ways are higher than our ways. He knows your heart and He cares for you. 

       I’ve been there in that same moment it may be different in situation but same feeling. When I realized that I am dwelling on the wrong spot. The Holy spirit conviction brings me to light. I turn to God and asked for His help and He helped me. I am filled with confusion, fear, disappointments and anxiety but when I cried to the Lord telling Him every feelings that I have. He gave me His peace and remove those emotions stirring my soul. He fiiled me with His spirit. He became my strength and joy. Take over the things that is not meant to stay in your life. Give it to the Lord. He got you. Smile and remember that He is God. Let God be God. Don’t think you can handle it alone because the real thing is you can’t your afflictions will try to rob everything from you your joy, peace and strength.  Cast down those thoughts that exalt themselves against the will of God and bring into captivity every thought to the obedience of Christ. (2 Corinthians10:5). 

          Arm yourself with the Words of God. Fill your mind with His Word. Be strong and courageous. Know that He is God. You are not consumed because He is sustaining you. Be a prayer warrior. In order to win you need to surrender first. Surrender to the Lord. Commit everything that you do everyday to Him. Dedicate every thing for His glory. He cares for you and He loves you. All you need to do is ask and it will be given to you. Believe.

Every afflictions are special ground for growth and for God’s greatness. All things work together for good to those who love God and called according to His purpose. “You are more than a conqueror” this words of the Lord in my dreams strenthen me everytime. I am a conqueror because I have Him. Jesus is in me. It is not I who live but Christ lives in me. You see how powerful the Words of God. Let us follow Jesus in defeating temptation by means of resisting and followed by saying the Words of God written in your heart. The spirit of God will teach you everything that you need to know. Be strong love.  The Lord is our greatest encourager and motivator. Cling unto Him. We can depend on Him. Believe.

Am I Beautiful?

         There are many description fall into this special theme— Beauty! Whether you like it or not you are aware of it. Let’s be honest we have that moment of thinking and asking of this nerve-wracking question “Am I beautiful?” I am not ashamed at all everytime I asked this to my mom and my dad  when I here them say “Yes, you are beautiful!” Oh men my heart leaped with joy and my hope soar like an eagle. The feeling is priceless! 🌸

Sex appeal, charming, gorgeous whatever you want to call it. Name it! Looking in the mirror, you began to think again am I beautiful? Hmm presentable, yeah! Now you are even doubting. You’re looking within yourselves, trying to find your value in your beauty and in your worth.

Enough with self-pitying. Come join me let’s widen our horizon of understanding as we dig deeper to find the real definition of beauty.

True beauty operates on three special levels — soul, mind, and body. When all three combine and are in effect, the outcome can be surprising, flabbergasting! What if one of this is out? The exquisite harmony of the music fails. Have you ever met a lady who was physically a work of art, but you had a hard time seeing her charm because her personality stunk? And there’s this adage that goes like “What is beauty when your brain is empty?” The same holds true for men. You see beauty is not just on one level. Let’s stop limiting its truth.

We live in a culture that bombard us with the message of insecurities.  “You are not good enough!” “You are not worthy enough” You do not have the right figure!”  We are bombarded by the unrealistic standards of this world. How many of us will ever be a perfect size 8, be coca cola shape and never have pimples on our face? How many of  us have that time and money to achieve the svelte body, and flawless, white skin? 

All things are lawful for me, but all things are not helpful. All things are lawful for me, but I will not be brought under the power of any” (1 Corinthians 6:12). This requires a moment of reflection. It’s easy for us to be brought under the power of the world’s idea of beauty, but we knew that if we buy in to it, we will face one of this two outcome; You either will become obsessed with achieving it or you will drown in the sea of self-esteem. Men, where’s the positive here?

Let’s take a look in the mirror again and this time make an honest assessment. Look closely not perfect, right? But workable 😊. Mark you no one is perfect. I like to say that God is fair. To one He gave a beautiful skin but okay body. To another He gave a fabulous body but okay hair. It help us realized that those good points we got along our bad points were designed to keep us all humble. 

Beauty tricks are rampant in today’s society. You can check it out in the internet. All sort of beauty ways can be made with a wise wardrobe choices, hairstyle and light make-ups. We can have that! Whatever you do to enhance your beauty the central word should be “natural”. Enhancing beauty and overdoing it are far different—we should know the difference.

We really won’t have the true beauty until Jesus transform us from the inside out. God says we are “not to be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, that you may prove what is good and acceptable and perfect will of God” (Romans:2) I believe there is a good, acceptable, and perfect will of God concerning beauty. And the first thing that makes us beautiful is righteousness (holiness). A woman with a gentle and quiet spirit. A woman who knows how to control her passions and walk with a sensitive conscience before the Lord is beautiful. The only true beauty comes from a life that is fully surrendered to Jesus Christ.

I was able to realized that for the most part the problem is of the way we view of what we have. Our beauty problems for us are usually greater in our minds than in the eyes of others—and we need to know the difference.

We are blinded by our own thinking and others opinion and forget about the beautiful set we got. Behind those unattractive part of us are those gems long to cherished. Love, time to wake up and embrace the truth. The truth will set you free. Let’s accept, love, and reflect on our best gifts. God made us all the way He determined best, in line with His own superior knowledge and for His purpose. We are fearfully and wonderfully made. What matters most is what God thinks. For Him, you and I are fine and beautiful. Cast down those thoughts that exalt themselves against the will of God and bring into captivity every thought to the obedience of Christ. (2 Corinthians10:5) 

If there is any virtue and excellence, If there is anything worthy of praise, think on, and weigh and take account of this things.” (Philippians 4:8) Remember this special message from God. Fix your mind on them. Take note of your best features and accentuate the positive girl. 

I am beautiful! You are beautiful! ❤🌸🍁

Let Me Follow Thee

Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it.                                         Proverbs 22:6

       ” Raise me well and I will become the best person you want me to be” these words of a clever child keeps reverberating in my mind. I myself began to think how can I raise them to help them achieve the self-actualization Abraham Maslow wants to point out. Raising a child is a blessed responsibility and it will depend on how we teach this young ones. To train means to teach, to teach means to make someone learn. Therefore teaching serves as a guiding tool to let every man learn and follow you.

       Training produce a disciplined individual. Every trainer must always look out on their ways of teaching them. I know a great teacher who have all the qualities to make a man achieve the highest level of Maslow’s Hierarchy of need the Self-actualization and the completeness of life. He is known to be the greatest teacher of all time, no one can compare. He has the love that can make you learn with ease you can feel it right away, He has the power to instruct and have all the qualities of many known teachers in this world and more than that. “All in one” as they say. Maybe you are thinking and wondering who might this one great guy? Do you want to know who is behind the descriptions? He is Jesus Christ. Yes! It is not a subjective kind of view but in objective perspective. We can’t deny the truth. He is the teacher of all teachers. Jesus wants us to have all the qualities to teach and train young ones for them not to depart from it. If we let Him and make Him the center of everything that we do we will surely make it. Positive!

     We can all be a catalyst of change in children’s lives. We have a very special part on them. Teachers, parents, siblings and friends who are ahead of them play an important role in guiding, directing and training them. What you have teach to them will only be remembered if and only if you have followed the ways of the Lord. Training comes discipline and if every person has trained well you expect an outcome that will always be remembered by heart. Wherever he may go he will always take it with him.

      Training is like the view of Ivan Pavlov in his Classical Conditioning, you need to condition the person first by creating a stimulus something that will motivate him to do so and when they got used to it you will have a response that will depend on how successful you have applied your ways in teaching them.

       If we want to produce a disciplined and well-kept person it is up to us. Love, faith, hope and  wisdom if all of this combine you can produce a quality of learning beyond the worlds idea of it. 

       Training also implies the adage “No man is an island” from the beginning we are apt to depend on the people around us without them we can not be able to know the important things thag we need to know. “Scaffolding” as they call it, through guidance it is possible. We are trained for us to develop a well-rounded personality. We are guided for us to have the knowledge. We are directed for us to become aware of the path we are going to. We are instructed to know what we need to do. By being aware of all this we will follow and bring it for life. We should learn to follow first to be followed next.

      Let us instill in our minds and take it by heart that we are all responsible of our actions, actions from within and actions from external forces. We should always remember that teaching is a responsibility, a blessed one. Let us follow the ways of the Lord and aim to be like Him in every way. Now we can say Lord, let me follow thee!.

Liebster Award

​I was nominated for the LIEBSTER AWARD! ❤🌸

I am thankful to be given another opportunity for this special award and it is a priviledge I accept it by heart. Special thanks to Hussein Allam for nominating me. He is a man of purpose. He inspires through his writings and you should check it out to find out. 😊

The rules of this award:

1. Acknowledge the blog who nominated you and display the award.
2. Answer the 11 questions the blogger gives you.
3. Give 11 random facts about yourself.
4. Nominate 11 blogs.
5. Notify those blogs of the nomination.
6. Give them 11 questions to answer


What do you do in your free time?

I enjoy reading inspirational books of Christian Authors and Spending time with the Lord completes my day with joy.❤

What is the drink that you like mostly in the morning?

Water! Followed by milk 😊

What are your hobbies?

Reading and writing. I am an indoor type of person so 😅

What is your plans for the next year?!

I don’t actually plan what will I do next year, I just go with the flow cuz what matters to me is now. God holds my future so I am confident with what it has to offer knowing He is already there and He promised that my future is filled with hope and singing. I believe that next year will be of breakthroughs and blessings by God’s grace. ❤

* I would really love to answer more quest but it is limited 😅

11 Facts About Me: 

1. I am a follower of Jesus.  

2. I love beach! I most loved it at night with many stars and bonfire. (romantic side of me)

3. I am an Elementary School Teacher, I love kids that’s why.

4. I love foods! Except the spicy ones.

5. I’m not fan of chocolates.

6. I love surprises filled with sincerity and love ❤

7. I am not afraid of heights but by falling😅

8. I am a fan of Old Fashioned Way of Romance(Courting)❤

9. Flowers my weakness😍

10. I love dogs the fury one.. They are cute!

11. I don’t snore!😄

I would like to nominate 11 bloggers who deserved LIEBSTER AWARD!❤

1. AsThaJAIN

2. inaloveworld

3. Andy

4. Mr. Lonely

5. Azra

6. I_am_fisidinho

7. Jonhcoyote

8. Kali Borovic

9. 2ndhalfolife

10. Tipsandtricksforlifeblog


 Special Questions For You

1. People invest time and energy into developing their career, their bodies and their relationships, but often neglect their spiritual dimension of their lives.How do you actively pursue spiritual growth?

2. What is your concept of God? Do you view Him positively or negatively?

3. How do you deal with people in your life that you dont like?

4. What are you most afraid of?

5. What makes you smile?

6. What’s is your main reason why you write or blog? 

7. Do you believe in love at first sight?

8. What inspires you?

9. What is your motivation in relationships, pleasing yourself or serving others?

10. How you spend your free time?

11. What does your perfect day look like?

I am excited to see your answers! ❤

Candid Moments!

             Wondering why are you in this special moment of your life? Wondering why everything you do falls perfectly in this special opportunity? Wondering what kind of strength and where it came from when you know that the struggle is real but you are coming out victoriously with every difficulty. Take a moment to reflect love. You will surely know the truth behind this special moment of your life.

           I wonder a lot of time and when I reflect there is always a curved form in my lips and a clear joy wrapped in my heart. I am having the peace which surpasses all understanding. In every challenges, difficulties,pains, confusions, and the likes I remember who is with me —Jesus, He never leave me. He is my rock, my fortress, my deliverer, my God, my strength, my buckler, the horn of my salvation, and my strong tower. The storm in my life calm down every time I call in the name of Jesus. I believe that all things come together for good just as He promise. I am not consumed because the Lord change not. We are all sustained by His pure and endless love. And so with you, love. Remember this When God guides, He will provide. We are more than conqueror through Him that loved us

            May you always be reminded that God is with you and in you. May you always be strengthened by His love and promises. And may your faith increase even more and see the best side of every thing that you are going through. As you read this love, I hope you know that you are never alone. ❤🍁🌸



#love #hope #faith

One Lovely Blogger Award

I was nominated for the One love Blogger Award

 Special thanks to kiwinana for nominating me. She is one amazing writer and blogger. Hope you check her blog. This is my “first time” to received an award and I appreciate it a lot. I find it special to be chosen and I can’t really help myself but smile with this award. 


  1. Each nominee must thank the person who nominated them and must give a link to their blog in their post.
  2. They must include the rules and add the blog award badge as an image.
  3. Must add 7 facts about themselves.
  4. Nominate 15 people to do the award!

7 Facts About Me: 

 I believe that everyone is special and unique. I embrace it by heart ❤

  1. I am a follower of Jesus Christ. I have a deep faith in God. My life is complete filled with joy, hope, and peace because He is the center.
  2. I am a school teacher. I love kids. I enjoy spending time with them,helping them see the best of them and be a part of their journey. 
  3. I love dogs. I always the one giving them names even cows. (weird me)
  4. I am ambivert type of girl.
  5. I love writing but I don’t write when I just feel like it. I write when I am driven by a special purpose of it.
  6. I really love surprises the good one. 😄
  7. In my 21 years of existence I have never seen a shooting star. I hope to see it with the man God has saved for me.❤

        I would like to nominate 15 bloggerswho deserve the One Lovely Blogger Award:

        1. Didis Art Design
        2. aaal_YOLLY
        3. chirose
        4. osama1798blog
        5. Esther
        6. Colors of my life
        7. G.N.
        8. Ally L. Mare
        9. boundlessblessingsblog
        10. CLEvangelism
        11. Becca
        12. Priyanka Bisht
        13. poetrylover
        14. Girija Arora
        15. Sheryl❤

          I’m not imposing anyone of you to write a post but each one of you here truly deserves this beautiful award. ❤

          Real Beauty

          This deserve a moment to reflect. A quest that tickle reality that touches deep realization. ❤

          We have our own unique sides are you embracing that or you are also following the world’s fleeting beauty. You are more than the word beauty of worldly definition. Were you able to stand in front of mirror looking deep in those beautiful set eyes of yours and telling yourself “I am beautiful” that one time you didn’t judge yourself because of others standards and opinions.“You are beautiful for you are fearfully and wonderfully made.” (Psalm 139:14) just so you know. The creator of the Universe made you beautiful even your imperfections made you beautiful. You are beautiful just the way you are. Whatever your shape, color, height, whoever you are. You are more beautiful than the worlds definition of beauty. Beauty is not all about physical characteristics you know that it is more than that. “It is not fancy hair, gold jewelry, or fine clothes that should make you beautiful. No, your beauty should come from inside you –the beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit. That beauty will never disappear and it is worth very much to God.” (1 Peter 3:3-4)

          Know it, accept it, Embrace it. You are beautiful! ❤🌸





          Dear Future Husband

                    I don’t  have the slightest  clue of who you are and where you might be right now. I just know  that whoever you are,  God has been writing our divinely orchestrated  romance. I am waiting for you, I hope you know that.  I’m  doing my best  to live according  to God’s will and make you proud. I know that you have been to countless battles,  that you face many storms.  I am so proud of you for being strong and getting up each fall trusting God for everything  that you’ve been through and going through.

                   I don’t delight  on anyone who doesn’t  have a heart like yours. I’ve  dried my tears from my past mistakes — from those guys I thought  you were. It hasn’t  been easy to wait but this is love right patient and kind. It will never fail.  By God’s grace I hope to give you all the best that I am and not just fragments of what’s  left. 

                I expect  you to be imperfect. Your imperfections  will indeed help me to love you more through  it I can truly demonstrate  how it is to love you unconditionally  as I was first loved by Jesus (1 Jonh 4:9) . You are good for me in spite of all your flaws and imperfections.I know you are worth the wait.  I know you are alive and living life according  to God’s will.  I hope you know I don’t  expect the world. I hope you know that I want what is good  and what makes you smile.  I hope you know that all I want is for you to love Jesus,  seek His will,  and serving  Him now every chance you get just as I am trying  to do. I hope you know that it is not money, big house or expensive  cars that I want.  All I want is to love and be loved and to serve God with our life. I want you to know that I’ve  got your back.  I will stay  and be with you through  thick and thin. I will trust you for every best decisions you will make for the family. 

                    I am thankful for you.  You are not just a product of my  imagination  but reality. I am thankful  for the man that God is making of you.  I am blushing  and grinning  at the prospect  of us spending the rest of our lives with each  other. I am also thankful  for this time that we get to grow in Jesus Christ  individually so that someday we can grow in Him together. Our singleness has a very special purpose  to cherished. 

                  I am thankful that I will someday  get to be the woman to love you and support you and cheer for you and laugh with you and cry with you and praying with you and raise  a family  with you. I wanna grow old with you.  But now focus on your  dreams and know that I am here living and breathing.  I know it won’t  be easy there will be moments of loneliness  and sadness. I pray that you  may find your strength  and satisfaction  in Christ’s love who makes all things beautiful  in His time. If I am lonely  or sad I hold on to the words of God and this little  glimpse of life with you. If you feel gloomy I hope you read this and shine up a bit. I am trusting  God to bring you to me in His time. For now I hope  you know that I love you,  I’m thinking of you and I am confidently waiting  for you. I am praying  for you.  
          Love, Kristel ❤